Update committer account creation flow to reflect Secretary-driven pr…

[tuhaihe]

…ocess

• Apache Secretary now directly creates Apache ID when processing ICLA, no longer requires a separate mentor email request
• Mark mentor request template as legacy/fallback

closes: #ISSUE_Number

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[leborchuk]

LGTM